I have spoken many times about how technology can hinder a relationship and is a cause of cheating in many relationships. But it CAN be used to help a relationship and cause it to grow. Today we spend much of our time checking our Facebook status, or Tweeting what we are doing at the moment. We may not realize it, but throughout the day we are doing things that are necessary to our own evolution. We are interacting socially, looking for acceptance, and trying to be validated. Whether that validation is through our work, family, or among society as a whole. What most of us want is to matter to at least one person. So in a relationship take a minute to text your loved one, set a status update, or tweet during the day a little note letting them know you are thinking of them. Doing something small like continually over time is the same as watering your plants everyday. Over time you will watch your relationship grow. Jealousy and other killers will subside, and you both will be stronger.
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