August 14, 2011

Danger's in the Losing of Oneself

     While reading an article (When Your Partner's Love Isn't Enough) it spoke about dependency on others as well as your spouse. While we as a society and as human beings are social creatures, it is my belief that when we allow ourselves to be too encompassed into someone else's beliefs or ideas, we lose that which we have gained over our evolution. Our "self's".  


     It is our ideas, thoughts, and beliefs generated within our own reality that makes what we consider "us" to be us.  Another article I was reading (The Idiots Guide to Dealing with Idiots) makes very good points on daily practices we should utilize to strengthen our inner selves so that we may be able to express our desires and goals. It is only through this understanding of ourselves that we can advance in our own emotional health and maintain a well-being that will keep us grounded. 


     We become disappointed when we rely on others to provide to us what we believe that we need. Self-reliance is strength and conviction in your own decisions. Empowerment comes through the belief that what you need, you can provide for yourself. Do not give up control of your life to another, let another find light in your life.

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